Minecraft Realms or a server: which one to choose to play together
16 October 2026 · 2 min read
Realms is Mojang's server service: you pay a subscription, Mojang keeps your world running, and you invite whoever you want. A classic server takes more work, but lets you decide everything. The right choice mostly depends on the size of your group and on what you want to add to the game.
What Realms is
- A world that's always online, even when you're not playing.
- Invitation only: only the players you add can get in.
- Nothing to set up: no address, no port, no update to apply.
- Automatic backups, with the option to roll back.
- Two separate Realms: Realms for Java, and Realms for Bedrock, whose Realms Plus plan includes Marketplace content. A Java Realm doesn't take Bedrock players, and vice versa.
Realms against a server
| Realms | Hosted server | Public server | |
|---|---|---|---|
| Setup | a few clicks | an hour, then upkeep | none |
| Players at once | around ten, depending on the plan | depends on the machine | dozens, even thousands |
| Plugins | no | yes | the server's |
| Mods | no | yes | the server's |
| Java and Bedrock together | no | yes, with Geyser | if the server allows it |
| Cost | monthly subscription | free to a few euros a month | free |
| Who decides | you | you | the server's staff |
When to pick Realms
Realms is the right choice for a small group of friends or a family who want a shared world without dealing with anything technical. It also works on consoles, where joining your own server takes detours. Finally, it's the most reassuring option for children: nobody gets in without an invitation.
When to prefer a server
Go for a server of your own if you want:
- plugins: land protection, economy, minigames, ranks;
- mods, or a full modpack;
- more players than Realms accepts;
- to mix Java and Bedrock;
- to open up to the public, and appear in a ranking like CubeVote.
To get started: How to create a Minecraft server, Choose a host, or the free option. The Resources and budget calculator estimates the memory and the price for your number of players.
What about joining an existing server?
If what draws you in is mostly people, events and a staff that keeps things lively, there's no need to set anything up: a public server gives you that for free. Come as a group, found your team, and pick the mode in the server ranking. The guide How to play Minecraft with friends sums up every way to play together.
Changing your mind later
Nothing is final: a Realms world can be downloaded and installed on a server of your own, and a server world can be uploaded to a Realm, as long as it depends on neither plugins nor mods. Start simple, and move to a server when the group grows.